El papel de la mujer en el hogar.
El papel de la mujer en el hogar ...
Jueves, 01 de marzo 2012
Un hogar feliz es donde prevalece la paz entre marido y mujer ... donde la vida transcurre sin problemas con una mayor comprensión. ¿Cuál es el papel de una mujer en el hogar, y la mejor manera que puede contribuir en lo que es un "dulce hogar"? .
La señora Indira Ganga Pidatala de Hyderabad, de India, comparte sus puntos de vista con consejos invaluables dados por Bhagavan en la sala de entrevistas.
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Esta historia fue narrada por nuestro amado Bhagavan a un grupo de devotos en una entrevista.
"Hace mucho tiempo vivía un santo llamado Tulsidas en la región de Maratha. Un día, estaba sentado en casa, trabajando en unos versos que él estaba componiendo. (Era un día brillante). De repente, él llamó a su esposa y le pidió que le trajera una lampara. Su esposa asintió con la cabeza, con calma y entró en la casa, donde ella encendió una lampara y se la llevó a su marido, quien le pidió que la coloque sobre la mesa.
Tulsidas luego la miró por un momento y dijo, "Take It Back ! Yo no la necesito ahora. "Su esposa, una vez más asintió con la cabeza y obedientemente tomó la lampara y la llevo a la casa."
Swami, sin completar la historia de repente alzó la vista hacia un par de nosotros y nos preguntó: "Si sus maridos hubiesen pedido que hagan lo mismo, ¿cómo hubieran respondido?" .
Sin esperar nuestra respuesta, Swami luego cambió el tono de su voz , e imitándonos, dijo que hubieran saltado, con el ceño fruncido, burlándose y atacando a nuestros maridos diciendo: "¿Estás ciego? . Es plena luz del día, ¿por qué necesitas una lampara? . Usted debe haberse vuelto loco! .
Swami, sin completar la historia de repente alzó la vista hacia un par de nosotros y nos preguntó: "Si sus maridos hubiesen pedido que hagan lo mismo, ¿cómo hubieran respondido?" .
Sin esperar nuestra respuesta, Swami luego cambió el tono de su voz , e imitándonos, dijo que hubieran saltado, con el ceño fruncido, burlándose y atacando a nuestros maridos diciendo: "¿Estás ciego? . Es plena luz del día, ¿por qué necesitas una lampara? . Usted debe haberse vuelto loco! .
Hombre loco, ve a buscarla tu, si así lo desea. "
Swami continuó imitando nuestra respuesta, "¿No puedes ver, he estado muy ocupado desde la mañana cuidando de tu hogar, tus hijos y cocinando los alimentos para ti!" .
Swami continuó imitando nuestra respuesta, "¿No puedes ver, he estado muy ocupado desde la mañana cuidando de tu hogar, tus hijos y cocinando los alimentos para ti!" .
¿No es así?
Swami nos sonrió tímidamente.
Usted conocen muy bien lo que pensábamos, Baba.
Entonces, Swami comento que la educación de hoy exige la igualdad entre todos los seres humanos. Es cierto que los hombres y mujeres son iguales, pero cada uno tiene un papel, un rol importante que desempeñar en sus propias vidas.
Comprender esto es la base necesaria para llevar una vida feliz entre un esposo y esposa.
Cada uno piensa "¿Por qué hago esto? ¿Por qué no lo hace el ? "O viceversa.
Este es el pensamiento que pasa por nuestra mente inmediatamente cuando estamos cansados de hacer algo. A partir de este pensamiento estalla la confrontación que lleva a discusiones acaloradas, resultando finalmente en una ruptura de la unión familiar.
Swami dijo que la razón por la que estamos viendo tantos divorcios y falta de armonía entre las familias, maridos y mujeres de hoy en día, es a causa de malentendidos.
Si uno es capaz de adaptarse y comprenderse el uno al otro, en todos los aspectos, entonces no habría ninguna necesidad de los tribunales de familia !
Comprender esto es la base necesaria para llevar una vida feliz entre un esposo y esposa.
Cada uno piensa "¿Por qué hago esto? ¿Por qué no lo hace el ? "O viceversa.
Este es el pensamiento que pasa por nuestra mente inmediatamente cuando estamos cansados de hacer algo. A partir de este pensamiento estalla la confrontación que lleva a discusiones acaloradas, resultando finalmente en una ruptura de la unión familiar.
Swami dijo que la razón por la que estamos viendo tantos divorcios y falta de armonía entre las familias, maridos y mujeres de hoy en día, es a causa de malentendidos.
Si uno es capaz de adaptarse y comprenderse el uno al otro, en todos los aspectos, entonces no habría ninguna necesidad de los tribunales de familia !
En otra ocasión, Swami me asesoró en mi matrimonio con mi esposo, Gopi. Dijo que como un seguidora de Sai, debería respetar el buen nombre de la casa que yo naciera y también a mi nuevo hogar, que es la casa de mis suegros en el que viviría durante el resto de mi vida.
Swami dijo que la mayoría de las hijas sienten que cuando van a vivir a casa de sus suegros, pierden su condición de hijas, que disfrutaban en su casa materna. En este aspecto, remarcó que cuando usted está entrando en su nueva casa como una nuera, debe estar de acuerdo con la ley, que está entrando en su nueva casa como una hija. Compórtate como una hija en su nuevo hogar. Su amor triunfará definitivamente y le dará el estado de la hija, que usted siente que podría haber perdido!
En este punto, también me gustaría compartir algunas reflexiones que Swami había dado a mi esposo y a mi, después de nuestro matrimonio, que podrían ser de algún interés para los lectores.
Swami le dijo a mi marido Gopi, que los problemas en una familia estallan sólo cuando hay una participación del marido y la mujer, con los ánimos crispados en ambos lados.
Swami siguió aclarando este punto, y nos dice que imaginemos que cada una de nuestras manos simbolizaban el marido y la mujer. En este punto, Swami dio una palmada. "CLAP", se oyó el sonido. Entonces, él apartó su mano izquierda y trató de aplaudir. No se oía nada, pero generaba una oleada de brisa fresca.
Así que, cuando las dos manos actuaban, generaban un ruido fuerte al chocar, que indica problemas. Sin embargo, cuando una sola mano se está moviendo, había una brisa fresca y no hay sonido.
Del mismo modo, en nuestras vidas, cuando hay una diferencia de opinión entre una mujer y el marido, si es paciente cuando el otro está de mal humor, no hay ninguna posibilidad de peleas en absoluto.
Por lo tanto, hay que ser inteligente y comprensivo. No agregue combustible al mostrar su temperamento, donde hay fuego.
Si lo hace, su casa se quema! . Swami aconsejó que en lugar de destruir su familia, habrá que guardar silencio durante algún tiempo y dejar que el estado de ánimo reinante se suavice y se calme.
Esto definitivamente ayudará en el control de la situación. Él también nos cuenta que la felicidad y la paz en una familia se pronunciará sólo cuando la señora de la casa es feliz, y que es deber de todos los demás miembros del hogar, ya sea el esposo o los hijos, que en este ambiente reduzcan la cantidad de tensión y el estrés de la señora de la casa.
Swami resumio que el matrimonio es básicamente una cuestión de entenderse unos a otros y nada más que eso ...
Hoy, en este vibrante mundo con poca ética y valores, el evangelio de nuestra querida Madre Sai, en lo que respecta al matrimonio, no es más que una mayor comprensión y tolerancia, para hacernos vivir una vida de felicidad y paz.
Estos pensamientos me han hecho comprender que en una casa, la felicidad, la armonía y la paz, están en manos de la señora de la casa.
Hoy en día con la Madre Sai en mi corazón, los problemas que surgen en mi vida, me ocupo de ellos convencida y con la firme fe, de que Él siempre está ahí para mí y mi casa, y que me ayuda en mi vida! .
Si , este pensamiento me ha ayudado ... ¿por qué no te ayudara a ti ? Vamos a trabajar esto en nuestras vidas y la felicidad será suya.
Hoy en día con la Madre Sai en mi corazón, los problemas que surgen en mi vida, me ocupo de ellos convencida y con la firme fe, de que Él siempre está ahí para mí y mi casa, y que me ayuda en mi vida! .
Si , este pensamiento me ha ayudado ... ¿por qué no te ayudara a ti ? Vamos a trabajar esto en nuestras vidas y la felicidad será suya.
II Samasta Lokah Sukhino Bhavantu II
fuente:
http://www.theprasanthireporter.org/2012/03/the-role-of-women-in-the-home/
NUESTRA VIDA ES SU MENSAJE
OMSAIRAMMM
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The Role of Women in the Home.
The Role of Women in the Home…
Thursday, March 1st, 2012
A happy home is where peace prevails between wife and husband…where life goes smooth with greater understanding. What is the role of a woman at home, and how best one can contribute in making it a “Sweet Home”? Mrs. Ganga Indira Pidatala from Hyderabad, India shares her views with invaluable tips given by Bhagawan in the interview room. Read on…
This story was narrated by our beloved Bhagawan to a group of devotees at an interview.
“Long ago there lived a saint called Tulsidas in the Maratha region. One day, he was sitting at home working on some verses that he was composing. (It was a bright day?). Suddenly, he called out to his wife and asked her to bring him a lantern. His wife calmly nodded her head and went into the house, where she lit up a lantern and brought it to her husband, who then asked her to place it on the desk. Tulsidas then looked at her for a moment and said,”Take it back! I don’t need it now.” His wife once again nodded her head and dutifully took the lantern back into the house.”
Swami, without completing the story suddenly looked up at a couple of us and asked, “If your husbands had asked you to do the same, how would you have responded?” Without waiting for our reply, Swami then changed the tone of His voice, and imitated that we would have resorted to jumping, frowning, sneering and attacking our husbands saying, “Are you blind? It is broad daylight, why do you need a lantern? You must have gone mad! Crazy fellow, Go get it yourself, if you want one.”
Swami continued imitating our response with “Can’t you see, I have been busy since morning taking care of your home, your kids and cooking food for you!” Isn’t it so? Swami asked us. We smiled meekly. You know us too well Baba, we thought.
Then, Swami went on to elaborate that education today calls for equality among all human beings. It is true that men and women are equal, but each one has an important role to play in their own lives.
Understanding this is the foundation needed for a happy life to be led between a husband and wife.
Each one feels “Why should I do this? Why can’t he do it?” or vice versa.
This is the thought that goes through our minds immediately when we are tired of doing something. From this thought erupts confrontation which leads to heated arguments, finally resulting in a rupture of family togetherness.
Swami said that the reason we are seeing so many divorces, and disharmony among families, husbands and wives today, is because of mis-understandings.
If one is able to adjust and understand one another on all counts, then there would not be any need for family courts at all!
On another occasion, Swami advised me on my marriage to my husband, Gopi. He said that as a follower of Sai, I should bring a good name to the home I was born in and also to my new home: that is the home of my in-laws where I shall be living for the rest of my life.
Swami said that most daughters feel that when they go to their in-laws place they lose their status as daughters, that they enjoyed back at home. On this aspect, he remarked that when you are entering your new home as a daughter-in-law, it is according to the law that you are entering your new home as a daughter. Behave like a daughter in your new home. Your love will definitely triumph and give you the status of the daughter that you feel that you might have lost!
At this point, I would also like to share a few thoughts that Swami had given to my husband and me too soon after our marriage that could be of some interest to the readers.
Swami told my husband Gopi, that trouble in a family erupts only when there is an involvement of the husband and the wife, with tempers riding high on both sides.
Swami continued to demonstrate this point by telling us to imagine that each of our hands symbolized the husband and wife. At this point Swami clapped His hands.”CLAP” came the sound. Then, He set aside His left hand and tried to clap. There was no sound, but a wave of cool breeze.
So, when both hands meet there is a loud noise indicating trouble. However, when only one hand is swinging, there was a cool breeze and no sound.
Similarly, in our lives, when there is a difference of opinion between a wife and husband, if one is patient when the other is in a bad mood, there is no chance of fights breaking out at all.
So, be cool and understanding. Don’t add fuel by showing your temper where there is fire already operating.
If you don’t do this, your home will burn! Swami advised that instead of flaring up, we should keep quiet for some time and let the reigning temper mellow down.
This will definitely help in controlling the situation. He further advised us that happiness and peace in a family will rule only when the lady of the home is happy and it is the duty of all the other members of the home, be it the husband or the children to bring in this atmosphere by reducing the amount of tension, and stress to the lady of the home.
Swami went on to elaborate that Marriage is basically a matter of understanding each other and nothing more than that … Today, in this vibrant world of downward plunge of ethics and values, the gospel of our beloved Mother Sai with regards to marriage is nothing but a greatest upadesa to make us lead lives of Happiness and Peace. These thoughts have made me realise that a home of happiness, bliss, harmony and peace lies in the hands of the lady of the home.
Today with Mother Sai in my heart, whatever problems arise in my life, I deal with them by a firm faith that He is always there for me and my home, that helps me in my life! If this thought has helped me …why would it not help you out there ? Let’s cultivate this in our lives and happiness will be yours.
fuente:
http://www.theprasanthireporter.org/2012/03/the-role-of-women-in-the-home/
NUESTRA VIDA ES SU MENSAJE
OMSAIRAMMM
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The Role of Women in the Home.
The Role of Women in the Home…
Thursday, March 1st, 2012
A happy home is where peace prevails between wife and husband…where life goes smooth with greater understanding. What is the role of a woman at home, and how best one can contribute in making it a “Sweet Home”? Mrs. Ganga Indira Pidatala from Hyderabad, India shares her views with invaluable tips given by Bhagawan in the interview room. Read on…
This story was narrated by our beloved Bhagawan to a group of devotees at an interview.
“Long ago there lived a saint called Tulsidas in the Maratha region. One day, he was sitting at home working on some verses that he was composing. (It was a bright day?). Suddenly, he called out to his wife and asked her to bring him a lantern. His wife calmly nodded her head and went into the house, where she lit up a lantern and brought it to her husband, who then asked her to place it on the desk. Tulsidas then looked at her for a moment and said,”Take it back! I don’t need it now.” His wife once again nodded her head and dutifully took the lantern back into the house.”
Swami, without completing the story suddenly looked up at a couple of us and asked, “If your husbands had asked you to do the same, how would you have responded?” Without waiting for our reply, Swami then changed the tone of His voice, and imitated that we would have resorted to jumping, frowning, sneering and attacking our husbands saying, “Are you blind? It is broad daylight, why do you need a lantern? You must have gone mad! Crazy fellow, Go get it yourself, if you want one.”
Swami continued imitating our response with “Can’t you see, I have been busy since morning taking care of your home, your kids and cooking food for you!” Isn’t it so? Swami asked us. We smiled meekly. You know us too well Baba, we thought.
Then, Swami went on to elaborate that education today calls for equality among all human beings. It is true that men and women are equal, but each one has an important role to play in their own lives.
Understanding this is the foundation needed for a happy life to be led between a husband and wife.
Each one feels “Why should I do this? Why can’t he do it?” or vice versa.
This is the thought that goes through our minds immediately when we are tired of doing something. From this thought erupts confrontation which leads to heated arguments, finally resulting in a rupture of family togetherness.
Swami said that the reason we are seeing so many divorces, and disharmony among families, husbands and wives today, is because of mis-understandings.
If one is able to adjust and understand one another on all counts, then there would not be any need for family courts at all!
On another occasion, Swami advised me on my marriage to my husband, Gopi. He said that as a follower of Sai, I should bring a good name to the home I was born in and also to my new home: that is the home of my in-laws where I shall be living for the rest of my life.
Swami said that most daughters feel that when they go to their in-laws place they lose their status as daughters, that they enjoyed back at home. On this aspect, he remarked that when you are entering your new home as a daughter-in-law, it is according to the law that you are entering your new home as a daughter. Behave like a daughter in your new home. Your love will definitely triumph and give you the status of the daughter that you feel that you might have lost!
At this point, I would also like to share a few thoughts that Swami had given to my husband and me too soon after our marriage that could be of some interest to the readers.
Swami told my husband Gopi, that trouble in a family erupts only when there is an involvement of the husband and the wife, with tempers riding high on both sides.
Swami continued to demonstrate this point by telling us to imagine that each of our hands symbolized the husband and wife. At this point Swami clapped His hands.”CLAP” came the sound. Then, He set aside His left hand and tried to clap. There was no sound, but a wave of cool breeze.
So, when both hands meet there is a loud noise indicating trouble. However, when only one hand is swinging, there was a cool breeze and no sound.
Similarly, in our lives, when there is a difference of opinion between a wife and husband, if one is patient when the other is in a bad mood, there is no chance of fights breaking out at all.
So, be cool and understanding. Don’t add fuel by showing your temper where there is fire already operating.
If you don’t do this, your home will burn! Swami advised that instead of flaring up, we should keep quiet for some time and let the reigning temper mellow down.
This will definitely help in controlling the situation. He further advised us that happiness and peace in a family will rule only when the lady of the home is happy and it is the duty of all the other members of the home, be it the husband or the children to bring in this atmosphere by reducing the amount of tension, and stress to the lady of the home.
Swami went on to elaborate that Marriage is basically a matter of understanding each other and nothing more than that … Today, in this vibrant world of downward plunge of ethics and values, the gospel of our beloved Mother Sai with regards to marriage is nothing but a greatest upadesa to make us lead lives of Happiness and Peace. These thoughts have made me realise that a home of happiness, bliss, harmony and peace lies in the hands of the lady of the home.
Today with Mother Sai in my heart, whatever problems arise in my life, I deal with them by a firm faith that He is always there for me and my home, that helps me in my life! If this thought has helped me …why would it not help you out there ? Let’s cultivate this in our lives and happiness will be yours.
II Samasta Lokah Sukhino Bhavantu II
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